[Topcools editor’s comment: Lesi sihloko WSJ is eqinisekisa lead evame kakhulu ukuvuma ngaphezulu ezingeni ukuya empini ngenxa kanembeza futhi sub-ukuya empini ngenxa kanembeza, ingxabano ngaleyo ndlela futhi ithunyelwe. isiko Common, ngendlela efanayo, ukucabanga ngendlela efanayo, Inani, ukwenza izinto zokuchitha isizungu, ingemuva, intshisekelo, imikhuba, ukubekezelelana level kungaba ngokuphawulekayo usike yakho 50% chance of ukwehluleka. Abantu abavela esifundazweni esifanayo, ngendlela efanayo has inzuzo ngoba kwemvume ezingeni ezisekelwe kunembeza kungenziwa faked ngenxa ubulili elikhangayo noma ukuyiveza ngenxa ongenakulinganisela male / female isilinganiso]
Ibhayisikobho Wall Street Journal: Aug. 21, 2014 11:46 a.m. FUTHI —————————————
The More kahle enganakile in a kushada, the Nkulu Ziyawohloka e ngokugcwele emshadweni ngemva kweminyaka emine
Lots of izinto phandle lapho eze 50% chance of occurring—a coin toss coming up heads, kunjalo; kokuba omunye usuku lokuzalwa babelana 25 abantu emcimbini; azalwe ene izinzwane leWebhu uma umzali umkhulu abe nabo; yimali by 30 Iminyaka eminingi ngemva kokuthatha umhlalaphansi ephethe iphothifoliyo ejwayelekile zezimali; futhi, ngokusho izifundo eziningi phezu emashumini eminyaka amuva, abanesimo ukuphela komshado ngesehlukaniso.
Lokho factoid last, kanye nokudlondlobala imishado uhlale yayinjalo kodwa umsunguli, kuyinto doozy. So it isn’t surprising that lots of science and pseudoscience has gone into identifying predictors of successful marriages.
Scientists have used brain scanners to peek inside people’s heads while they think about their spouses. Others ask couples to discuss one of their relationship’s contentious issues and collect data about body language during the ensuing argument. Futhi ke kukhona eHarvard zezibalo ababike i namathuba amaningi okuba ingane ezinkulu emshadweni kuyophumelela uma umbhangqwana unikeza izimpendulo ezifanayo zemibuzo emithathu nje: “Ingabe wena uthanda amafilimu ethusayo?” “Wake wahambela nxazonke kwelinye izwe yedwa?” futhi “Wouldn’t it be fun to chuck it all and go live on a sailboat?”
an omuhle 2013 iphepha iphephandaba i-Science unezela nokuqonda kubaluleke khona ukuba le ndaba.
ucwaningo, led by James McNulty of Florida State University, nesifiso sokuthandana amalungu 135 Imibhangqwana kushada eyavula a inhlolovo standard mayelana nekhwalithi imishado yabo. Ososayensi ngezikhathi eqoqwe idatha efanayo kusukela kubo eminyakeni emine ezayo.
Okokuqala off, bathola ukuthi izilinganiso ngokugcwele emshadweni unqabile ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, okuthile Kuhlekuhle. Baphinde wafunda ukuthi izimpendulo ezivela abasanda kushada ababikezela lutho mayelana ngokugcwele emshadweni ngemva kweminyaka emine.
Kodwa ososayensi lalizingalo okunye labo abasanda kushada, usebenzisa i “associative priming umsebenzi.”
Lokhu kuhilela agqoke kafushane yochungechunge oluthile lwezinto ezenzeke emagama lafana nalawa: “ezimangalisayo” noma “banengeke” on a screen; Izikhonzi kufanele cindezela ngokushesha omunye izinkinobho ezimbili, kuncike ekutheni izwi lingavumelani emihle noma emibi.
Manje kufika zokukhwabanisa enganakile.
Ngaphambi nje ligama ngalinye, the researchers flashed up a picture of a random face for an instant—300 milliseconds—too fast for people to be consciously certain about what they saw but enough time for our subconscious, ngokomzwelo ubuchopho bengane busebenze ngendlela bokuqiniseka. Uma ubuso liletha imizwa emihle, ubuchopho ngokushesha liba into lifana nesimo esihle sengqondo isethi; uma izwi zagcwala olwalumile kamuva kweso is a siyimfanelo, ebuchosheni masinyane kuthola kanjalo. Kodwa uma izwi alivumi, there is an instant of subconscious dissonance—”Ngangiphatheke kabi enkulu, but now I have to think about that word that means ‘inconsiderate jerk who doesn’t replace the toilet paper.’ ” Futhi kuthatha amasekhondi amancane ambalwa eside hit “negative” ukhiye. Ngokuphambene, isibonisi ubhekene ne engavumelani nemiBhalo, futhi kukhona ukuthi dissonance olubangelwa kokulibala encane ekuboneni ngokwemibandela omuhle.
Ngakho kulolu cwaningo, the rapid-fire sequence of faces/words included a picture of one’s new spouse, revealing automatic feelings about the person’s beloved. Lokho kwaholela nokuthola ukhiye: Engemihle enganakile ngaphezulu abasanda kushada, elikhulu ukwehla ngokugcwele emshadweni ngemva kweminyaka emine.
Ingabe izikhonzi baqonde lokho umsebenzi priming kwaba mayelana? Azikho, and people’s automatic responses were unrelated to their answers on the questionnaire. Kwakungekhona ukuthi iphutha ngenxa zokungazimiseli ukuphendula sivume ngobuqotho, noma zaba abantu unaware of isimo sazo sengqondo othomathikhi? Kuyinto engenakwenzeka ukutshela. Ingabe abantu nge emihle kakhulu imizwa othomathikhi mayelana abashade nabo kamuva nezinkinga ezimbalwa emishadweni yabo, noma ayengaphandle akanandaba inombolo evamile zezinkinga? Buthule ukuhlaziywa idatha ukusikisela sakamuva.
Kusho ukuthini lokhu cwaningo usitshele, ngalé esikisela ukuthi lovebirds kumele cishe kuthathe lesi sivivinyo nifty lwama-computer bese niyashada? Isikhumbuza, like sifunda kangakanani okwengeziwe ngobuchopho ukuziphatha, ukuthi singaphansi engapheli, amabutho yangaphakathi begazi elingavamile esingalazi.
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http://online.wsj.com/articles/new-ways-to-predict-which-marriages-will-succeed-1408636006
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